You always need a firm hand. Without a steady partner with whom you can share the pleasure and sorrow you get depressed.
You need a man that can provide you with protection and safety and who earns enough money to keep you. The one who can give you that will in return get an excellent housewife and a faithful mother.
But it takes very long for you to trust a man. Even if, you often fall in love, you give your heart away only once.