By nature you are a prudent and practical. You are not doing well when it comes to romance and emancipation.
If you can not find a partner that will quietly submit herself to your will, then at least you expect her diplomatic approach, so that you can rest assured that she has no free will or, God forbid, stubborness in herself.
When you find a suitable woman, you'll show that you can be a very generous and loving partner. A woman who can get used to your lifestyle, will surely enjoy Heaven on Earth in the company of a trustwoarthy partner.
If your loverman abilities are questioned, you tend to react very sensitive and get easily hurt. You are definitely not a man who indulges in "lower feelings", such as petting, cuddling, holding hands and walking in the moonlight.